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Successful Relationships for Christian Youth: Lessons from Isaac and Rebekah

By Henry Preza



Discover how to have a successful relationship according to the Bible. Practical reflections from Isaac and Rebekah to make wise, responsible decisions based on God's will.

Successful Relationships: Learn from Isaac and Rebekah

The biblical story of Isaac and Rebekah is exciting and full of teachings for young people who want to grow in God's will. Although there was no "dating" as we know it today, we can apply their principles to our relationships now.

1. Listen to Your Parents, Value Their Opinion

Abraham was concerned about Isaac's marriage (Genesis 24:1-3). In his time, parents chose their children's partners. Today, this isn't imposed, but their opinion is still valuable. They can see qualities and flaws that you might not perceive.

Lesson: Don't ignore your parents when choosing a partner. Their advice can prevent mistakes and guide your path.

2. Trust Mature People for Important Decisions

Abraham trusted a responsible servant to find a wife for Isaac. This teaches us that maturity and responsibility are essential in life decisions. Marriage requires discernment and preparation.

Lesson: The person who guides or advises you should be wise and responsible. Marriage is a serious commitment.

3. Choose with Determination and Faith

Abraham instructed his servant:
"...you shall not take a wife for my son from the daughters of the Canaanites, among whom I dwell; but you shall go to my country and to my family, and take a wife for my son Isaac." (Genesis 24:3-4)

The choice had to be someone of faith, with solid values. Today, choosing a partner with the same faith and strong character is crucial for a successful relationship and marriage.

Lesson: Don't ignore the importance of sharing values and faith with your partner. This prevents future conflicts.

4. Signs of Responsibility and Character

The servant asked God for a sign: the young woman should demonstrate work, service, and responsibility (Genesis 24:12-14). Rebekah showed these qualities by offering water to him and the camels.

What to look for in your partner:

  • A hardworking and responsible person.
  • Ability to take on household commitments.
  • Willingness to co-manage and help in the family.

Biblical quote:
"But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever." (1 Timothy 5:8)

5. Principles for a Successful Relationship

A successful relationship isn't just about dating or feeling attracted. It should include:

  • Shared values.
  • Seriousness in choosing a partner.
  • Mutual responsibility and commitment.

Ignoring God's Word can destroy future marriages. Just as Esau lost much for little, we must prioritize the essentials: faith, character, and responsibility.

Conclusion: Build a Relationship Based on God

  • Listen to your parents' guidance.
  • Seek maturity and responsibility in your partner.
  • Prioritize faith and Christian values.
  • Continue to follow God's Word in your relationship.

If you apply these principles, your relationship will be healthy, successful, and prepared for a solid marriage blessed by God.

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