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About twenty years ago, I had the opportunity to attend a meeting where a brother named Oren Yoder was invited to speak. On that occasion, he addressed a topic we often overlook: the spiritual influence we exert on others. In that gathering, through various biblical passages, we were reminded how, in Scripture, grandparents, parents, and children influence one another, and how that influence can extend across generations. The Bible clearly shows that a person’s decisions can sow both life and blessing, but also pain, hatred, and death when they are not guided by God. Over the years, I have come to confirm how true this teaching is. I have seen how one person can profoundly affect another’s life, for better or for worse. Therefore, as believers, we need to pause and examine our attitudes and actions, understanding that we do not live in isolation, but constantly influence those around us. Our Lord Jesus Christ is the perfect example of influence exercised well. His life transformed His ...

By Henry Preza Guilt by itself doesn’t solve anything. What truly matters is to confess sin before God and return to spiritual disciplines. Genuine repentance opens the door to restoration. Many young Christians struggle with masturbation and the guilt that comes with it. This article offers a biblical and practical reflection on how to face this habit, understand God’s forgiveness, and pursue genuine spiritual freedom. Masturbation and its false acceptance Some scholars define masturbation as a pleasurable practice that helps young people “get to know themselves better.” Others even describe it as a “blessing from God” to prevent human depravity, or as something acceptable up to a certain age. The problem with these views is that they move away from biblical truth. Something that goes against God’s design for sexuality can never be a blessing. Nor is it right to say that it’s acceptable at one stage of life and not at another, because masturbation often becomes a habit that last...

A Christian Perspective on Love and Values Por Henry Preza  The importance of looking beyond the physical The most important thing in a relationship is not appearance, but the values that guide the person with whom you want to share your life. If you focus only on the outside, sooner or later disappointment will come, because physical beauty doesn’t last forever. But when you value the beauty of the heart, you will always feel proud of your partner. You will love them for who they are, not for what they have. Remember, you fall in love with a person, not a product. With products we choose what looks best, but in courtship it’s not about choosing what is most attractive to the eyes, but what has the most value in essence. Of course, you can marry someone who is handsome or beautiful, but if that person lacks values, there is a real risk they may become a “moral monster.” That’s why it’s so important to focus on inner qualities. A real experience I remember a woman who came ...

By Henry Rolando Preza  Hebrews 13:4 – “Let marriage be honored among all, and the marriage bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.” Some couples who are dating and engaging in sexual relations often end up separating, mistreating one another physically or verbally, or facing consequences that will impact their marriage. The Bible clearly says: “Let marriage be honored among all, and the marriage bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge” (Hebrews 13:4). True marital honor is reached in sexual purity. While some people marry in order to leave fornication behind, the memory of an initial dishonor never truly vanishes from their minds. God calls young people to sexual purity. The Apostle Paul says: “For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that every one of you know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor” (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5). This command is for everyone, but it ap...

By Henry Rolando Preza Child abuse is one of the most painful realities of our time. Around the world, millions of children suffer beatings, rejection, abandonment, and abuse. The damage is not only physical—it leaves deep emotional scars that often last a lifetime. In this article, we reflect from a Christian perspective on the causes, the consequences, and the hope for healing and restoration in Christ. God’s Heart for Children Child abuse is no small matter. The violence that so many children endure is alarming and heartbreaking. Jesus declared, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.” (Matthew 19:14). Christ loves children and calls us to become like them if we want to enter His kingdom. Yet in society—and at times even in the church—children are ignored, dismissed, or mistreated. Some parents take out their frustrations on their children, wounding them both physically and emotionally. This is nothing ...

By Henry Preza Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her; and if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery. — Matthew 10:11-12 Infidelity is a destructive force that causes immense pain and leaves deep scars on all involved. That's why fidelity is a value that God blesses and defends. Those who have fallen into infidelity often resort to various strategies to avoid being discovered. Even when confronted, they seek to make their actions seem normal to avoid judgment. One of the cruelest tactics is to make the faithful spouse feel guilty. The woman, in particular, should not accept this burden, as she is never responsible for her husband's betrayal. 1. "I suffered a lot and had no other choice" Cheaters often present themselves as victims. They claim that, due to circumstances, they had no other option but to be unfaithful. When their partner confronts them, they directly blame them for "leading...

By Henry Rolando Preza A relationship guided by God, with respect and communication, can be a blessing and a beautiful prelude to marriage. It's not just about avoiding mistakes but building a relationship that glorifies God. Many young people know when a relationship isn't going well, but they still choose to continue. Feelings often cloud judgment, and that almost always leads to pain. A relationship can start off wrong for various reasons. From that moment, we could say it no longer has a reason to be. Today, I want to share five very common signs of a relationship that started or is going wrong. Perhaps not all of them apply, but I know they repeat in relationships that end in failure. 1. Without God A relationship starts off wrong when God isn't consulted. God's will comes first. If it's not God's will, it's not right to start a relationship. But how do we know God's will? The answer is: through His Word. The Lord asks that there be no roman...

By Henry Preza Many marriages lack mutual understanding, which becomes a real obstacle. When a couple is unwilling to yield and insists on imposing their opinions, sooner or later the situation becomes unsustainable, potentially escalating to violent acts. Not yielding has become a "point of honor" for many spouses, who think that if they do, their marriage will lose. They believe that valuing the other's opinion is a waste of time and power. For others, yielding means allowing things that aren't worth it, when in reality, yielding is the best thing to do in critical moments where there's no understanding. Below are some tips that may be helpful: 1. Stop to Think Before closing yourself off to your opinions, reflect on how not understanding your spouse will affect your relationship. Think about the reason you've taken that stance. Are your feelings sincere, or are they filled with hate, distrust, or misunderstanding? If your feelings aren't pure, it...

By Henry Preza Discover how to have a successful relationship according to the Bible. Practical reflections from Isaac and Rebekah to make wise, responsible decisions based on God's will. Successful Relationships: Learn from Isaac and Rebekah The biblical story of Isaac and Rebekah is exciting and full of teachings for young people who want to grow in God's will. Although there was no "dating" as we know it today, we can apply their principles to our relationships now. 1. Listen to Your Parents, Value Their Opinion Abraham was concerned about Isaac's marriage (Genesis 24:1-3). In his time, parents chose their children's partners. Today, this isn't imposed, but their opinion is still valuable. They can see qualities and flaws that you might not perceive. Lesson: Don't ignore your parents when choosing a partner. Their advice can prevent mistakes and guide your path. 2. Trust Mature People for Important Decisions Abraham trusted a responsible...